years.
I loved him, but I no longer trusted him.
We began marriage counseling. Forgiveness didn’t come quickly. For months, even ordinary statements made me suspicious.
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Our counselor told Ben, “Transparency is not confessing only after you’re caught.”
Slowly, he learned to stop deciding which truths I could handle. He began sharing information without being asked and taking responsibility for his choices.
Trust returned gradually, through small actions and repeated honesty.
Lily also became part of my life. I never tried to replace her mother, and she never expected me to.
Eventually, I met Denise and Tom. During dinner, Tom looked at Ben and said, “For a smart guy, you’ve handled this like an absolute idiot.”
Ben nodded. “Yes.”
I liked Tom immediately.
The flood destroyed Ben’s desk and ruined the carpet, but most of the photographs survived. The pink perfume bottle did not.
