Teen Wore a Dress to His Best Friend’s Funeral – Family Nearly Had Him Removed Before He Reached the Microphone

Cancer.

Fourteen months from diagnosis to funeral.

It still feels obscene to reduce his life to those facts.

Jack loved old horror movies and burned grilled cheese because he refused to cook it on low heat.

He hated tomatoes but ate ketchup on everything.

He could name almost every capital city in the world and couldn’t remember to bring his laundry downstairs.

And Theo had been beside him for most of it.

The boys met when they were seven.

Theo lived four houses down.

By ten, he practically lived at ours.

He slept in our spare room so often that I eventually stopped calling it the spare room.

It became “Theo’s room.”

His home life wasn’t easy.

His parents separated twice, reconciled twice, then finally divorced with enough bitterness to poison every holiday afterward.

There were years when Theo spent Christmas with us because neither parent could agree whose house he was supposed to be at.

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