My Daughter Came Home from Summer Camp Acting Completely Different – Then the Vice Principal Called and Said, 'Your Daughter Didn't Tell You Everything'

"Kath. Talk to me. Did something happen at camp?"

She shrugged.

"I got into an argument with a friend. Over a photo. It's stupid."

"A photo of what?"

"It doesn't matter, Mom."

"A photo of what?"

I assumed she meant Brenda.

I remember thinking, of course, 13-year-old best friends imploding over nothing. Classic.

"You want me to call Brenda's mom? We could..."

"Mom!"

Her voice was sharp for half a second, then soft again.

"It's fine. Really. I just need a couple of days."

I assumed she meant Brenda.

***

Days turned into a week. The sketchbook didn't move.

I watched Kathleen from the doorway one night, curled on her side, with her phone facedown on the pillow beside her. She wasn't crying. My kid, my chatterbox, had gone somewhere I couldn't follow, and every time I tried, she smiled tightly and closed the door.

I kept telling myself to give her space. She's a teenager. She's allowed to have friend drama without her mother orchestrating a peace summit.

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