“Come to my wedding with Claire and bring our daughters. Oh, and your invitation does include a +1, but we all know perfectly well you don’t have anyone.”
That’s the text my ex-husband, Max, sent me on a Tuesday night in April.
I was standing at the kitchen sink with my hands in dishwater when my phone buzzed on the counter. I dried one hand on my jeans and picked it up and read it.
Then I read it again.
Then I set the phone face down on the counter, very carefully, like it was something that might go off, and finished washing the dishes.
I scrubbed the same pot for about ten minutes.
My ten-year-old, Ava, was doing homework at the kitchen table. She looked up at me.
“Mom? Are you okay? You’re scrubbing really hard.”
“I’m fine, sweetheart.”
“Is it Dad?”
I didn’t answer. That was answer enough.