Idris read it first. He read it twice, the same way I had.
And then he passed it to his brother and went and stood by the back door with his hands on his head, which is what that boy has done since he was four when something is too big.
Cai read it once and put it down and said: “He spelled Idris wrong.”
Which he had. With a y. On the envelope and twice inside.
Their father wrote his son’s name wrong four times in a four-page letter and nobody at that kitchen table, including me, had noticed until a sixteen-year-old said it out loud.
What happened afterwards.
They wrote to him. Both of them, one letter, in the July, which they did not show me and which I did not ask to see.
They asked to meet him once. Not at his house. In a café in Halbrook, on neutral ground, with me sitting somewhere else in the same café, which was Cai’s condition and which I thought was very sensible and slightly heartbreaking.
He came. I will give him that, and I have to give it to him because it is the only thing I have to give him in this entire account.
Forty minutes. I could see the back of his head.
And what my sons have told me about it is this.
He spent the first ten minutes explaining. The middle twenty on the subject of what I had done. And the last ten asking them about their subjects, which Idris says was “actually all right, he was quite interested.”
And at the end he said he would be in touch about doing it again.
That was the twenty-sixth of July, 2025.
He has not been in touch. It is now fourteen months.
And the thing Dominic actually said, on the stairs at Tannery Hall, about twenty minutes after the ceremony.
I was on my way out and he came down four steps and stood in front of me, and Seren was at the bottom with Rafe, and there were still people everywhere.
And he said: “You could have told me.”
Not are they all right. Not is that Cai. Not one question about a boy who had just taken the highest mark in the state.
***You could have told me.***
And I said: told you what, Dominic?
And he said: “That they were doing this. Any of it. I’d have — ” and then he stopped, because he could not finish that sentence in a public stairwell with his wife eleven feet away, and because there is no end to it that survives being said out loud.
I would have what. Come? Helped? Been there?
He had my mobile number for thirteen years. It has not changed since 2009. It is the same number that was on every court document and every school form and every letter his solicitor ever sent.
And I said that, and then I went round him and out to the car, and that is the last thing I have ever said to my ex-husband.
Rafe.
This is the part that has surprised everybody, including me.
Rafe Farrow comes to my house.
It started with the Quiz League — they carried on, obviously, all the way to the May — and then it was a Saturday in the August, and then it was every other Saturday, and now it is most weeks.
Seren drives him. She has been in my kitchen four times and has had a cup of tea twice, which for two women in our position is a diplomatic triumph.
He is fourteen now and he is bright and he is extremely funny and he is, at the moment, a bit lost.
Because what happened to that boy in a car park in the May is that he found out that his father had two other sons and had lied about them for his whole life.
He has not got over it and he is not going to for a while.
And Dominic, who does not ring my two, has been perfectly present with him — same house, same school runs, football on Sundays — and I have had to watch a fourteen-year-old sit at my table and try to work out how both of those things can be true about the same man.
I do not say anything about his father in that kitchen. Not one word, in fourteen months. It is the single hardest piece of self-control I have ever managed and I have failed at it precisely once, and my own sons pulled me up on it before Rafe had even left the room.
And Ivy Sandoe, two doors down, who is eighty-one and who came to the finals.
She came in a taxi that she paid for and would not discuss, and she sat next to me, and when Cai’s mark was read out she took hold of my wrist and did not let go of it for the rest of the ceremony.
She did four years of after-school for those two, from 2016 to 2020, and she would not take money for three of them, and in the end I had to start paying her electricity bill by standing order and telling her it was an administrative error at the energy company, which she has never believed and has never challenged.
In the car park afterwards, Dominic walked past about six feet from her and did not know who she was.
And she watched him go and then she said, to me, in her ordinary voice: “Is that him?”
And I said yes.
And she said: “He’s smaller than I thought.”
Which is not true. He is six foot one. It is the single best sentence anybody said that entire weekend.
Where things are.
Idris and Cai are seventeen. They are in the upper sixth at Gatley Bank Academy, which is an ordinary state school, and they both have offers to read, respectively, engineering and physics.
The medals are in a drawer. Both of them, in the same drawer, in the kitchen, with the takeaway menus, because when I put them on the shelf in the front room Cai took them down again and said it was embarrassing.
I still work at the depot. Four days, and the Saturday at the shop until the September, when I stopped, because for the first time since 2012 I did not need the second one.
And I see Halla on Wednesdays, which started as being about the foyer and has been about a box file since about the August.
And the photograph on the bookshelf, which I mentioned to Seren on the phone as though it were obvious and which requires an explanation.
It has been there since 2014. It is Dominic at twenty-eight, on a beach, holding two babies in one of those double slings, looking knackered and delighted.
Ivy asked me once, in about 2018, why on earth I kept it up.
And I gave her the answer I had ready, which was that they were entitled to know what he looked like.
