"Like you're memorizing me."
"I want to remember everything so I can tell our daughter who you really were."
His expression changed, but before either of us could say more, he caught my wrist.
"My mom asked about the donation again."
Violet had always been warm with me.
When morning sickness flattened me, she showed up with groceries and tiny yellow socks because, according to her, "That baby is going to drown in pink."
"My mom asked about the donation again."
"I'll talk to her," I said to my husband.
"No."
"Why?"
"Because she'll listen to you."
I frowned.
"That's usually a good thing."
"Not this time."
"Because she'll listen to you."
"What happened?"
Mark sat on the edge of the bed.
"She thinks I shouldn't donate."
"She told you that?"
"More than once."
"Did she say why?"
"She thinks I shouldn't donate."
He looked down at his hands.
"She can't handle the idea that something of mine might belong to somebody else."
I sat beside him.
"She's losing her son, Mark. I can't exactly be mad at her words..."
"I know."
"Then maybe she needs time."
"She's losing her son, Mark."
"She needs something to be angry at."
His eyes met mine.
"And I don't want that something to be you."
I squeezed his hand.
"You're asking me to stay out of it."
"She needs something to be angry at."
"I'm asking you not to make her grief your job."
***
A few weeks later, Mark began asking to speak to Dr. Rivers alone.
The first time, I teased him about it.
The second time, I stayed by the door.
"What are you arranging?"
I teased him about it.
Mark leaned back against the pillows.
"Something I need to handle."
"Without me?"
"Yes. But it's for you."
I stared at him.
"That's somehow worse."
"Something I need to handle."
A faint smile touched his mouth.
"Please trust me."
"I do trust you."
