My Grandson’s Fiancée Told My Five-Year-Old Granddaughter There Was No Room for Her in the Family Photos — But My Speech Made the Entire Room Fall Silent

person in her life.

— Then show it through your actions.

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She looked at me.

— I don’t know if I should be a mother to her.

— She doesn’t have to call you Mom. She just needs to feel that there is an adult beside her who accepts her.

Claire looked at Margot again.

— Will you tell me about Phoebe?

Her question surprised me.

— I don’t want to compete with her — Claire said. — But she was her mother. If I want to be part of Margot’s life, I need to know what she was like.

And I began to tell her.

About Phoebe’s personality.

About her habits.

About the way she noticed people.

About how much she laughed.

— She probably would have asked me a million questions — Claire said.

— Without a doubt.

— And if she liked what I was doing for Emmett and Margot?

— Then she would have become your defender.