point arguing with her once she sounded like that.
Growing up, I had watched my mother lose countless arguments with Grandma.
Doctors had lost them too.
Nurses had tried.
My grandfather had apparently learned decades earlier that resisting Evelyn only encouraged her.
Still, this felt different.
Grandma had missed holidays.
She had missed family dinners.
She had even missed Sophie’s birth because leaving home had become too difficult.
The last time I had visited her, she had needed help simply shifting herself against her pillows.
“How are you even planning to get here?” I asked.
“You worry too much.”
“You’re 101.”
“And somehow I know that.”
I almost laughed.
Then I heard her cough.
It was deep and rough, and whatever amusement I had felt disappeared immediately.
“Grandma.”
“I’m fine.”
She wasn’t.
We both knew it.
But I also knew better than to embarrass her by saying so.
“Does Mom