What advice do you have for couples going through a hard time?
Think back to why you married them in the first place. Always try to look beyond the small issue which always looks like a big elephant in the room. It is not. The big elephant in the room is your love for each other. Try to remember that. If you can’t then maybe it’s not meant to be but in most cases I think if you really look at it and see why you loved that person in the first place, it goes on from there.
Before that though, first take care of yourself because if you do not love yourself and are not happy with who you are then how can you have the mental clarity to be loving and tender with another?
You have to have love, respect, to honor each other’s integrity and you must have a sense of humor!
We are always kind to each other and help each other. Treat your partner the way you would want to be treated and love them deeply.
One thing I have learnt about love is…
It is more beautiful than you can imagine.
We just had a pretty serious health scare – which turned out to be a false alarm, thank God – but it again put things into perspective. So, live for today – nothing is given and tomorrow is uncertain – but today is here so open your eyes, smell the roses, look around you and enjoy life together.
